Like melissag, I loved that line about 'last time I checked...'
That was freakin' awesome.
My H does that too, where he will talk to me through our S! He will look at S and then say what he wants to say to me. I'm like, I'm right here dorcas... So weird. Must be the guilt thing coming over them...only for an instant, I'm sure.
I'm so proud of how you set your boundaries and you did it without an air of superiority, just what needed to be done. You have reclaimed some power back, good for you.
I'm taking notes on what you do!
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.