Your wedding event sounds like it went off beautifully. I'm sure it was beautiful. Did you post pics on fb?
That would have been a fabulous thing to share with your H. Too bad he is in looneyville.
Don't down yourself for being a bad mom. Sometimes teenage boys LOVE being alone! lol I know mine does. They knew what you were doing and that you were there if they needed you.
Interesting to hear about people on 'the other side'. lol. I guess it never feels normal for a long time and we have to get used to that regardless of the outcome.
Great job on your work event!
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
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It was so pretty. I haven't posted many pics on fb because it's going to be submitted and there cannot be a bunch of pics floating around. I'll pm them to you though.
It's funny. He was always so proud of me but, I now see, also jealous. Not understanding that the more I accomplished did not diminish him it increased us together.
When I called S14 to say I wouldn't be coming home, I thought I would go home after set up and go back for strike, he sounded a little crestfallen. Broke my heart. I felt like the worlds worst parent. Thankfully, S19 got off at 7 so was home the rest of the night.
My cousin has had a very rough go. OW. Crazy ass H. Lost her house. Etc. On the other hand she created a lot of her drama too. She sees that now. But he is still in full on replay, I can see it she's not sure to believe me, Anyway, I find it ironic that my H is willing to help her while her H is in looneyville and he doesn't see it.
Thanks Pud!!!! I'll send those pics soon
M 16 T 20 M 41 H 39 S 19 S 15 Bomb drop April 4; Moved out April 13 D started-full force ----------------------- Dancing through the fire Cause I am a champion and you’re gonna hear me ROAR
Hi W. Can you please send me the copy of my resume that you have on your lap top......can you please email it to (personal email address) or (work email address). Thank you.
OMG my senses are on overload. Why the f does he need his resume?????? Silent treatment. Two mean texts last Wednesday NOW this über polite text asking for his resume!?!?! My sister designed that resume. You get one of your sisters to design you a new one!!!!!
OMG. Is he trying to get a new job now!?!?
M 16 T 20 M 41 H 39 S 19 S 15 Bomb drop April 4; Moved out April 13 D started-full force ----------------------- Dancing through the fire Cause I am a champion and you’re gonna hear me ROAR
My girlfriend said not to send it......after the way he has treated me. He can type up a new one. Do I say I deleted it???
M 16 T 20 M 41 H 39 S 19 S 15 Bomb drop April 4; Moved out April 13 D started-full force ----------------------- Dancing through the fire Cause I am a champion and you’re gonna hear me ROAR
I can definitely see your pov bea. I guess i feel all my kindness gets me nowhere with h but walked all over.
He changes jobs, or puts out resumes anyway, like people change underwear. Someone is always our to get him. They're idiots. Management is this or that. He has never written, updated, filled out an application on his own. I've always done it for him. His dad got him his first job so he didn't need one there. I feel like this is what he wants, me gone, well, I take my knowledge with me and it's time to figure it out.
I see can see how this seems vindictive. I just feel like I'm done working for him to get beat up.........
M 16 T 20 M 41 H 39 S 19 S 15 Bomb drop April 4; Moved out April 13 D started-full force ----------------------- Dancing through the fire Cause I am a champion and you’re gonna hear me ROAR
Your h probably does need to stand on his own two feet from what you say! I think it is why we do things that matters - if there are good reasons for not sending it, such as you describe, fine.
Kindness is not softness. And yes it appears to get trampled on, but that isn't the point.
I would send the resume to him and advise him that it will be his responsibility to maintain an electronic copy of his resume from this day forward. After you send it to him, delete the resume on your hard drive. Now, if you really aren't sure about deleting it, put it on a thumb drive and store it somewhere safe...accommodate him once and after that, he is on his own.
I know how you feel, but you don't want to lower yourself to his level. Show him you are the kinder, gentler person than he is, i.e., lead by example. Sometimes a little kindness will go a long way in getting what you want later.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
M 16 T 20 M 41 H 39 S 19 S 15 Bomb drop April 4; Moved out April 13 D started-full force ----------------------- Dancing through the fire Cause I am a champion and you’re gonna hear me ROAR
I don't think so. I think he needs it and knows you've most likely not deleted it.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
