Oh 3, I have no idea if that was "good" DBing or not, but I LOVE what you said to your H about having the option to stay 7 days a week. I am sure it won't have any effect on him bc he is delusional right now, but at least you got to entertain yourself. smile

My H has made several of those kinds of comments. Like, when we had to move around a bunch of money in order for him to pay his rent plus security deposit, he said "I know this is a pain, but I don't have a choice." I was like, ummmmm, yeah you do. Or when the kids ask him, "Daddy, do you HAVE to leave?" "Yes, I do." "Why?" "Because sometimes when you're a grown up you have to do things that you really don't want to do but you don't have a choice." Ha!!!

The crazy thing is that they BELIEVE this stuff. Somehow in their minds, it's true that they have no choice, and clearly, it is our fault. Auugggghhhh.


me: 44 XH: 42
M 11 years
D10 and S8
Bomb drop 9/27/13
D final 7/1/14