My hair is so thick that when it was long it took two lots of colour to do it properly so it cost a fortune. And I've got a natural red in it somewhere which seems to be highlighted when I start playing with colour - it always comes out redder than intended no matter what colour I used. The way I see it is that if the likes of Jamie Lee Curtis, Dame Helen Mirren and Dame Judi Dench can go gray/white gracefully and still look good, then why can't I.

I don't know why he doesn't like it, but to be honest I don't really care either. I changed it for him once and it didn't keep him from having his MLC or from straying, so why should I keep it the length he likes. I changed it to a style that everyone says suits me better, makes me looker younger and thinner and that is far easier to take care of.


Both 50
S14
M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)

ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012
H moved out - 27 Jun 2013
Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013
Closing the door and changing the locks