Interesting post Barb. I just spoke to a worker who asked for ideas as to earning more money. So I told her. She than says "I left my H last month. I'm 40 years old good looking and vibrant. I felt stagnant in the M". I was speechless. The way the WAS think is very strange to me. I was stagnant and at times bored in my M but wouldn't have left it. This worker said that she was comfortable with her decision. No domestic abuse or drugs involved other than he "wasn't listening to me and I don't understand why he is angry". Really she said that after taking the kids, furniture and moving into a new condo now wonders why her H is pissed. LOL Can't make this stuff up


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden