I got to see may Nan 2 days before she passed. It was a bitter sweet trip to my homeland. Got to see lots of friends and family I never seen in a while, all asking hows the wife & kids. Told them they were great but felt a bit embarrassed saying were separated. The same thing is happening home, plenty of family's breaking up. Why is this so common these days?

Not much new between the W & I. She dont seem as angry when I go over to see the kids. She is still short on words when communicating, as if I were someone she just met. No texts from her just one word replys when I inquire about the boys.

Tonight I am attending a support group for separated single parents. Only problem is that its my night to visit the kids. I will request to switch my visitation to tomorrow, hopefully it wont cause any drama. Still fearful of her responses when asking her questions.

I appreciate the thoughts and encouragement Pudmuddle!

Continuing working on being the husband only a fool will leave! I really think I am becoming awesome smile


H 37
WAW 32
S 4 (Autistic)
S 2
Together 11 years
Married 6
Bombshell Dec 1 2012
House sold, flying solo June 1 2013.