My husband told me he was divorcing me last week. Although shocked, I also have been unhappy in the marriage. I plan on particpating here further - to add details and talk about the books - but today what I want to know is:

Can I do the 180 and apply what I learn in the books by myself? Without my H knowing that I am attempting to change our course?

It isnt as though I want to be dishonest, but he is resolute and frankly I think we can make it. I need to try.


M: 49. H: 49
D: 17
Married: 8.5
Bomb: 11/09/13