even, after a year, still amazing to me what h is willing to give up- was life with me so bad that he could give up even one day with his kids? I am not perfect, but I know I am pretty good... I know this is h's deal.
It's not about you. Not about the kids. He's not doing this TO you. He is doing this for himself. He is pushing through some very old issues within himself--nothing to do with you. NOTHING. PERIOD.
And, you already are doing it.
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson