rH, Back off a bit. True, you and your h have been planning social things together, but...he's still baking up and your expectations level needs to go back to zero. He needs some space to do some things on his own. I suspect that your h is going to want to do some things on his own from now on as part of his "new and improved self".
rH, don't rush the process...allow him to bake slowly and it's okay to check the temp every once in a while, but you need to leave him in the oven a while longer.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
