My H would get the D done tomorrow if he had the money. I feel he wants the D for the wrong reasons, to get his hands on half the house. Sometimes the judge will award the LBS the whole house, so if he's expecting half then he may not get it. Anyway, I'm hijacking 2old's thread here. Great news all around on the job, new friends, PMA and maybe GALing If W hasn't filed yet, it sounds like it was an empty threat. Just take it as red that she's not going to file for now and get on with your life I was stressing for months over it until H had the decency to actually tell me he couldn't afford the D!
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
If W hasn't filed yet, it sounds like it was an empty threat. Just take it as red that she's not going to file for now and get on with your life 
