I used to think the same way but no longer. I went through a period where I thought she was upset that I was doing so much that she no longer had a role here. But, that's not it at all, so don't consider that as your wife's problem with you.

W works directly across from my boys school. She can watch them on the playground from her office. Yet, since the school year started I take them every day that I'm not gone out of town for work. Which has been about six days so far.

It's been a long ride. Might as well hang on until it stops.

M - 42
W- 37
S's - 9,6
M-12
T-14
FIL- diagnosed with fatal disease spring 2011
ILYBNILWY - march '12
FIL - died jan '13
W Moved out week later