Nothing really new. I've been doing basically all the housework for about 6 months. Depression was fully set in well before BD in July. Only I can figure is that as I've started doing more with the kids that it's moving more into her territory and that has created this reaction.
BTW, I picked up boys from practice and we went to eat at a new restaraunt with another dad and his son. At the same time W was out with her BFF at another restaraunt. We all had a good time separate of each other. Ironically, I tried to encourage her to do more of those things years ago. It always seemed like she thought she was shirking her responsibilities as a mother by trying to be herself. I think this is one of the things that has contributed to this terrible struggle for her.
Both 40 T-22 M-18 S13 S11
Bomb, ILYBINILWY-7/10/13 EA #1-confirmed 7/10/13, ongoing since 5/13 EA #2-9/13/13