Hi tbh42, welcome to the board. It seems that you are doing OK. I hope the vets will step in and help you with the advice. Generally, the opinion on this board is not to help your spouse to move out. Let them do it on their won. But, if you are so determined that you need him out of the house, you might be going in the right direction.

What do you want? Do you want to save your M?

M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state