I like the idea of a question mark candle, I must keep an eye out for those ones
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
Are you seeing any difference in W, DMR? From the outside looking in, she seems to be moving towards you very very slowly. Any luck with casual touch? My H was playing all my favotite songs on the piano yesterday and I felt so sentimental and longed to ravish him a la Privet - that beautiful painting of a violinist taking a piano playing woman in his arms for a passionate kiss. But I refrained LOL and settled for laying my hand on his back. Lovingly. He did not acknowledge it at all but didn't flinch away either. Last time I touched him he almost injured himself fslling off the stoop, he jerked away so hard. Pathetic that something so small means so much to me. Pathetic
You don't seem to have any of the more evil Scorpio traits DMR.
Linda
Me 65, Ex 64 M 38 y 2 adult S, 4 G-Kids MLC 11/07 BD 12/09 D 3/14 Dating nice guy 7/14 Engaged to nice guy 12/17
Linda, It's not pathetic. Those little things are very important, and touch is such a wonderful and powerful means of communication. I'm still too gun shy.... I was just pondering if I could work in a hug for my B-day.
I've got my Scorpio traits reigned in a bit with all the meditation and DBing. Funny you mention astrological signs. My W has mentioned them several times, starting with right after BD. Not sure if she's looking for validation or something.... Then again, I don't think being a WAW is necesarrily a Cancer trait.
She does seem to be moving in the right direction. She stayed over again tonight after our dinner/movie date. She hasn't been taking the kitty over to other house any more - which gives her more opportunities to come over here to see him. That and to watch all the shows I record that we always watch together. She also stopped showing any interest in taking any of her remaining things over there.
She does seem to be moving in the right direction. She stayed over again tonight after our dinner/movie date. She hasn't been taking the kitty over to other house any more - which gives her more opportunities to come over here to see him. That and to watch all the shows I record that we always watch together. She also stopped showing any interest in taking any of her remaining things over there.
You're obviously doing something right . Keep it up.
Both 50 S14 M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)
ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012 H moved out - 27 Jun 2013 Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013 Closing the door and changing the locks
I agree with NQ She seems to be moving in the right direction, keep it up
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
Another Walking Dead viewing / sleepover last night. I did sleep on the couch (of course she went to bed much earlier than I ever do since she has to get up and commute and I just have to stumble into my office). Got a good idea from RL - I should mention the couch really made my back hurt and see if it leads to an invite to the bedroom. Could just lead to offer to swap places....
She had a bit of laundry to do and I had my basket sitting by the machine, ready to go. She surprised me by asking if I wanted some of it washed with her small load. She also asked if I need anything from grocery store, as she's coming over tomorrow so I can use the car to go to my dentist appt.
She also had yet another one of those weird tales about other peoples strange marriages - the city where she's from seems to have a lot of married people with girlfriends/boyfriends on the side, and a surprising number of them know about it. She was surprised, give it's a fairly conservative small city. Anyway, just another of several of these stories. Justification maybe?
Another Walking Dead viewing / sleepover last night. I did sleep on the couch (of course she went to bed much earlier than I ever do since she has to get up and commute and I just have to stumble into my office). Got a good idea from RL - I should mention the couch really made my back hurt and see if it leads to an invite to the bedroom. Could just lead to offer to swap places....
Would it hurt to try?
Originally Posted By: MileHigh
She had a bit of laundry to do and I had my basket sitting by the machine, ready to go. She surprised me by asking if I wanted some of it washed with her small load. She also asked if I need anything from grocery store, as she's coming over tomorrow so I can use the car to go to my dentist appt.
More positives – keep it up MH
Originally Posted By: MileHigh
She also had yet another one of those weird tales about other peoples strange marriages - the city where she's from seems to have a lot of married people with girlfriends/boyfriends on the side, and a surprising number of them know about it. She was surprised, give it's a fairly conservative small city. Anyway, just another of several of these stories. Justification maybe?
Maybe, who knows what’s going on in her head
Both 50 S14 M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)
ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012 H moved out - 27 Jun 2013 Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013 Closing the door and changing the locks
All sounds positive stuff MH I agree with NQ on the couch/bed swapping
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
