Thanks rH and FY. rH, I have been functioning as a single parent for almost two years. W is starting to make progress in helping. It's real similar to having a baby sitter, as much as I hate to call it that.

I'll be out of town for a night so I've got frozen pizzas in the freezer. It's kind of funny.

Couldn't agree more FY!

M - 42
W- 37
S's - 9,6
M-12
T-14
FIL- diagnosed with fatal disease spring 2011
ILYBNILWY - march '12
FIL - died jan '13
W Moved out week later