It's funny how similar they are. Mine was/is the exact same. Started doing more and more just to keep things functioning. Eventually, you end up doing it all. It was nice practice for when she moved out. I went from three kids back to two.
M - 42 W- 37 S's - 9,6 M-12 T-14 FIL- diagnosed with fatal disease spring 2011 ILYBNILWY - march '12 FIL - died jan '13 W Moved out week later