Not my intention to make her feel guilty. My job gets a lot easier starting now. I always have more time to be involved and do things in the winter. One thing that she has always freely admitted is that I don't mind helping around the house and with chauffeuring the boys when I can.

W has always been type A personality in every phase of her life. She is that way at work, at home, and in her family. She has always been "in charge" and "handled it." I am guilty of letting her do that for years in our M. As our roles are changing, it's upsetting her already fragile world.

I'm afraid that this anger that she is showing us only going to get worse. Harder to maintain civility and protect our children if this grows. I'm digging in and getting ready for the long haul.


Both 40
T-22 M-18
S13
S11

Bomb, ILYBINILWY-7/10/13
EA #1-confirmed 7/10/13, ongoing since 5/13
EA #2-9/13/13

Moved out and Legally Separated 6/14

"Success is a journey, not a destination."