Originally Posted By: Lll54
I honestly don't think I will ever stop walking on eggshells until our marriage is either over or 100%stable.


There is no such thing as a 100% stable marriage; life is full of too much change for that.

What you can hope for is a commitment from your H to work with you when problems arise, not running away from them (and by extension, you).

MrBond is right; you have to learn to overcome this fear of being alone, or of being abandoned by your H, because you can't control him any more than he can you.

Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."