Good point, true. For example, jfun, I was sweeping up the leaves outside our entryway (LOTS of leaves) and then sweeping all the leaves that tracked into our house. My H had been commenting on this for weeks now, sounding like he was going to do it. But I didn't do that because he commented or because I wanted him to feel guilty, I did it because I wanted to clean up the mess. I'm also doing more general housekeeping than I used to do, a 180 for me, not because he wants to see that more. But it makes me feel better to keep my home tidy. It's the one mess in my life that I CAN clean up, lol.
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
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