TTD180, I have been connected with the boys over this year, but maybe it was seeing each other at the party that brought it on. Who knows, but I do know the texts were just silly texts, meaningless talk. With regards to paying for the solicitor, she has the money. I allowed her to still claim half the investment tax refund this year, that means she got over $16k back from the taxman. So spending $5k on the "binding financial agreement" is a can do.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.