I think the superiority thing is a general personality flaw of mine that I need to work on. I'm not sure if it feels a need or if I've always been that way. It is clearly something that is not appealing about me. During R talks and arguments since BD, W has told me that I am "condescending" and said "don't think you couldn't mess up the way I have." Bingo!
Weird vibe around here today. An edge every time W looks at me. No words to speak of. Then she got into busy body mom mode and cleaned out her closet and got angry at everyone else in the house for not cleaning up their rooms. Both boys got a fave full of this. This is an old weekend pattern in which we would all lay around and do nothing until the weekend was almost over and she would get frantic and edgy about what the house looked like. I suppose this is part of her cycling and trying to work things out.
To watch her bounce from one personality to another is confusing for all of us. I worry about my boys. It's not regular moodiness, it's like channel surfing.
W is dropping boys off at bball practice and going to eat with BFF. I hope it helps her feel better.
Both 40 T-22 M-18 S13 S11
Bomb, ILYBINILWY-7/10/13 EA #1-confirmed 7/10/13, ongoing since 5/13 EA #2-9/13/13
