Just been feeling kind of numb today, maybe a little hopeless because I know I can't do anything about what is going on. I'm afraid I might turn into a was, after she leaves because I've been hurt pretty bad that if she does decide to come back, I don't know if I would trust her with my feelings and not be able to open up.
That is a common fear, one I have struggled with myself. I can say that it is possible to move forward and still stand for your marriage. I can also say that you'll be a healthier, stronger person at that point of detachment. I just can't tell you it's easy or that it's the fastest way of getting there.
-PM
M:12y - BD:12/11 - D:6/13 - 4Ds
"The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy." -MLK Jr.
