I don't really understand why your H would be upset about you being on a DB forum? Sounds like he's just looking for excuses to push you away.
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This morning H brought up to me the fact that he doesn't think we love each other enough. That we don't love each other as much as other people do.
In Seven Habits of Highly Effective People, Covey makes the case that love is a verb, not a noun. It's something that you do, not something that just "is". Your H has the choice to love you as much or as little as he wants. But if he chooses not to love you, that's a choice that he made, not something he can blame on external elements.
