Being so quiet is definitely a 180 for me. I'll keep it up...seems to be working.
Plus, I am learning more and more that the whole STFU is something I need to work on anyway, for myself.
Hmmm. This ^^^^ concerns me a little. What do you mean it seems to be working? A 180 cant be done as a ploy, A. If you have decided that you say too much and you want to weigh your words, that's great. If you are doing it to get a reaction out of him, not so good, right?
Good for you not getting in the middle of his thing with his mom. That is the right thing to do.
