So, I've had some interesting "texts" with H late yesterday and this morning. Just found out that he is talking to his mom again!!!! YAY! (It's been two months since he cut off contact with most of his family.)
His stepdad's mother (his Mamaw) has had cancer several times, in her brain, and it not doing well.
He kept wanting ME to contact his mom yesterday to see why she keeps calling him. I politely refused. I told him that I was not going to get in the middle of the thing with him and his mom, etc.
H's mom did let me know that H's Mamaw is not doing well...but I completely stayed out of their "fight".
I received several texts from him talking about how stressful his night was, etc. but I didn't ask for details.
He just now texted me and said that he'd had a long convo with his mom last night...and again, today, and seems like they are talking again.
He said a week ago that he would definitely not be going to Thanksgiving at his family's this year...and asked me to take the kids. Today, he said that he "might" be going.