I really hope, especially for the kids' sake that H is reconnecting with them again. I completely understand having that desire.
All the best to you. Time and actions will reveal where he is soon enough. Take care
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home