Here I am.... Again. This time I'm not sure there is anything I can do. I haven't responded lately because my H caught me on here and became really upset about it. I was scared to come back in fear of him catching me and everything going down the drain.

I appreciate everyone who offered me advise. When you are going through something like this validation and options and help really gets me through the day so thank you.

And of course I am back. This morning H brought up to me the fact that he doesn't think we love each other enough. That we don't love each other as much as other people do. I told him I love him more than anything and I asked of maybe to him not loving me. He responded "how could I not love you. You do everything for me and take care of me"

He has now been sulking around the house and seems sad and depressed. Are we too far gone?


M: 31
H: 29
Married: 6 yrs
Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old





Separated: Sept. '09
Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09
Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10
Threatening to leave again: July,14