Thanks for the comments over the weekend. Yesterday and today, have been pretty uneventful.
Thanks, uR, for the 2X4's....H texted me yesterday afternoon and this morning....and I remembered your words and did NOT let myself get drawn into fights.
I stayed calm and mostly, quiet. I got away with the bare minimum in conversation. I validated "sorry you feel that way"...."sorry you had a tough night at work...thank you for working so hard for us"...etc.
H did keep asking why I was "so quiet"..."not my usual talkative self"..."acting weird." Lol. Being so quiet is definitely a 180 for me. I'll keep it up...seems to be working.
Plus, I am learning more and more that the whole STFU is something I need to work on anyway, for myself.
