DTM ... I am so sorry to hear what you are going through. I agree that you should proceed with speaking with an attorney. I know that it [censored]. It is so hard to imagine how someone can treat another human being like this, with little to no remorse. While we would not do this to our worse enemy, they are ok doing it to the father/mother of their children, their former best friend and spouse. It just goes to prove that they are not in a normal state of mind. Your W will be consumed in her own world for a while. Protect your sweet children and yourself.