DARK - how do you do it right? I need help BADLY

[DTM]

Thank you for the advice...you're right, the time for being soft, sweet and nice is over. Quiet like a mouse until I get the ball rolling...she had enough chances to make it right.

I hate that it's come to this but she really isn't leaving me with any options.

I finished my snooping today...came up with more stuff right under my nose - her 2013 calendar sits by my computer...on her and her girls anniversary every month there is a heart, then just numbers, and then later it switches to words with meaning....right under my nose! Gotta love it.

Thanks again for the advice....got it.