Yes, to an extent. I am being kind, and taking the high road, but perhaps I should just clean the car and give it back to her in the best condition I can sans gas cards.
Yes! I know where you're coming from, I really tried to load the nice stuff on my W after BD. But I came to realize that all that just looks to them like pursuit regardless of how good your intentions are. And pursuit is just enabling their behavior, it's telling them "you're wronging me, but I'm going to keep right on waiting and even rewarding you for it."