You're doing really well, far better than a lot of newcomers do smile Don't let his harsh words affect you at the moment, they are only words smile I agree about doing the complete opposite to what you have been doing, we've all done this in the past with great results smile Although I can't think of an example of when I've done it, but I'm sure I have smile


H47 me48
T22 M21
S20 - Got high functioning autism
3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her
11/2000 H moves back home
2/4/13 H moves out
H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!