Been a while, since the legal process is complete I though I would check in.
Turns out there is/was a OM (don't know/or care if it was EA or PA).
She has told me she is involved with him as she enjoys helping him get his life back on track (he has a very checkered past... think drug/alcohol, stealing cars, armed robbery. close to 20 years in prison, recently paroled).
But her family and friends have told her in no uncertain terms that OM is not to be around them.
Back to me: I have been sticking to my 180's and GAL. Even picked up shooting... boy does firing off a few rounds at the range help blow off steam.
Me: 43 M: 10y S:15 ILYBINILWY 2/18/13 W moved out 2/18/13 Filed for D: 2/17/13 Got DB: 2/20/13 Got DR: 2/23/13 180 & LRT Began: 2/25/13 D Final Dec '13