Thanks for your insight Mimi. I wish I could just ask her what was going on in her head, but I know temp checking like that is rarely beneficial. So, I'm going to keep moving forward, not standing in her way, but not being an enabler either.

I'm planning to wash/wax/vacuum/have the tires rotated on her car before I give it back to her. I also plan to put two $25 gas cards in the center console so she'll be surprised when she opens it. I am taking the high road in all things through this process. I will be the better person through the whole process regardless of her actions. Perhaps killing her with kindness is one way of putting it, or in all things, turning the other cheek.


H: 29
WAXW: 30

Bomb Drop- 9/9/13
Negotiated Settlement- 5/9/14
D Final- 5/21/14
XW has breakdown in attorney lobby- 5/30/14