So I did not contact w. I keep waffling between just keeping no contact and reaching out. Since she is not contacting me, I take it as a message to not contact her.
Nothing happened between us to lead to this long period of silence. I have to assume it is just her taking space she needs.
Me-45 W-44 T-7 years M-3 years (4th anniversary July 13, but we're separated) Kids from previous relationships (s14 d16 mine, s23, s24 hers)