So I did not contact w. I keep waffling between just keeping no contact and reaching out. Since she is not contacting me, I take it as a message to not contact her.

Nothing happened between us to lead to this long period of silence. I have to assume it is just her taking space she needs.


Me-45
W-44
T-7 years
M-3 years (4th anniversary July 13, but we're separated)
Kids from previous relationships (s14 d16 mine, s23, s24 hers)