Being Superdad has been incredibly fulfilling. I'll freely admit that being less than involved was one of my weaknesses before BD. More so than trying to keep score with W, it's more about changing that part of me that I didn't like. It has been very rewarding. The boys will do chores pretty easily when I ask and we've gotten along great. I think that's one thing that is really upsetting W. Like you mentioned, I can handle things that she has always done. I'm not trying to one up her or show her that she's not important. I am truly enjoying becoming the dad I should have always been.
I guess I better do done more reading. I think my eyeballs are going to pop out from all the threads I have read through on here. This community right now is an oasis in a desert of crap that is my M. More anger coming? I guess that time of living together as friendly roommates is gone. Oh well, no one said this was going to be easy.
Both 40 T-22 M-18 S13 S11
Bomb, ILYBINILWY-7/10/13 EA #1-confirmed 7/10/13, ongoing since 5/13 EA #2-9/13/13