After Bryan cheated right after we were married,we didn't talk much about it. I still loved him, he promised not to hurt me again and I had fertility issues. So I went ahead and stayed. It was always in the back of my mind.
His whole thought was it was in the past get over it. I believe you have to learn from the past in order to not repeat the same mistakes over and over. Well he is repeating history in many ways. I am trying to do things better.
Mish, you have got to tear down those walls. You can create happiness in yourself and in your relationship. Write down some of what you do want and note what you don't. Don't talk yourself out if anything, just write it down for now. Please do this.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
