DTM. First of all I am sorry about what you found and you should definitely get legal advice about that.
I understand you're angry.
But it seems as though you are absolving yourself of any wrong doing just because of the things you found out about your w. Nobody here says that your w is a saint, but you definitely played a role in the downfall of your M. If you don't make changes, you will not be able to have a healthy relationship with anyone in the future.
Best wishes to you.
Me-45 W-44 T-7 years M-3 years (4th anniversary July 13, but we're separated) Kids from previous relationships (s14 d16 mine, s23, s24 hers)
