FY, I think it is a great idea! Maybe you can chat with some other women before you “pick her up” t make it even more interesting. I would say it could also back fire, but if you W has social anxiety, she will definitely feel more comfortable with you.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state