S13 and I had a pretty quiet weekend. We did a little bit of shopping yesterday - including lunch out compliments of the government LOL. We were going to go hiking today but it was rainy so the hike was out. Instead we went for a drive, and I let S13 talk me into lunch at McD's and on the way home we stopped in at one of the farm shops which has a really nice bakery and also sells some British sweets and biscuits. I'd only intended on picking up some meat pies for my dad's lunches this week but ended up buying some sweets as well. Just what I need in the house - more chocolates less than 2 weeks after Halloween - my son is spoiled, but I do make sure he's not a brat with it smile

Bit of a surprise, or maybe not, tonight - knowing how strange H has been lately crazy . He wasn't scheduled to visit this weekend as he was going away. Anyway, he phoned around 6 and said he'd picked up a little something for our son while away and would it be okay if he dropped by with it after he'd finished his dinner.

He turned up around 8, gave the gift to S13 and then hung around until about 20 minutes ago. S13 had to be in bed early tonight as he's on parade in the morning for Remembrance Day, so H once again hung around after our son had gone to bed. And once again no nasty comments about dad. And tonight he didn't even manage to spoil the atmosphere by bringing up OW.

He's coming around sometime during the week as our son has plans for Sunday so won't be available to see his dad. H said about spending time with our son, and taking me to Costco if I needed anything as he'd have the card from his work. No mention of packing crazy .


Both 50
S14
M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)

ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012
H moved out - 27 Jun 2013
Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013
Closing the door and changing the locks