Icecold, it sounds like you have a wise friend. I wrote this in someone else's thread the other day and I will repeat it....God's plan is actually not that different from DB. He wants us to trust Him completely by giving our spouse, worry and pain over to Him, then He wants us to go live & work on us (180s & gal) while He handles it.
me: 30 H:30 tgthr:7 m:4 no kids 5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012 long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012 official BD: July 2013 nothing filed 1/1/14 I dropped the rope
