I just want to say that I totally agree with you guys... After so many good years together with our spouses, we know the truth... We had a good thing going.
Our marriages wouldn't have lasted two or three decades if this wasn't the case. Because of this, I too find it impossible to give up on my wife as she goes through such a difficult period in her life. I've gone through some tough periods while standing, but it actually seems to be getting easier now. I feel like our M will make it, and eventually be better than ever. But even if it doesn't, I know I will be fine. And you will be too.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
