Intro - hoping for support/advice on DBing

[Accuray]

Melissa, do you think there is an OW? It's unusual (but not unheard of) for someone to jump out of a marriage fairly suddenly without another person waiting in the wings. I think it's good to know because it influences what you should do. Have you seen any signs that would indicate OW other than the all to familiar script he is giving you?

If only we could deal with our shock and loss first, and our wayward spouses second it would make it so much easier than both at once!