It is certainly worth a shot. I do however believe that the best thing to learn how to do is to talk about what you need. What kind of relationship will you have if you are afraid of being open and honest? Is this how your relationship was like before the divorce? Weren't you able to discuss problems or concerns?
I hope you find the strength with in yourself to change. To create the life you want and deserve. Honestly dear, you deserve happiness but no one is going to hand it to you. You have to make this happen.
Hugs, kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory