Your thread is reeeeally helping. Accuray has made detaching a bit more clear. Also his boundary setting helps. ////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////// Question:
While my husband has been coming and going, he has done so mostly on my school night days. I don't like it because I don't concentrate well after seeing him.
This Tuesday 5:30 am, he wants to switch cars again. Later when it gets past hunting he wants to swap cars in my school parking lot. I am extremely uncomfortable with the whole day.
Does this seem reasonable?
A boundary I'd like to set is no meetings or coming over on those days. I prefer to workout and study on those days, try and relax without planning anything.
Now , because my esteem is shot I don't know if I'm being too sensitive? The last three times I was accommodating and went with the flow.
I'm not sure how I'd phrase it. Obviously I don't want to tell him I'm uncomfortable for I'm trying to appear relaxed and easy going/flexible.
Accuray if you're following what do you think?
Formerly Workinprogress H :55 M :over 29 yrs. Together : 33 D : college D : adult BD and left : May 2013 Separated Experimenting/Replay
