Yes, this is why I asked the questions. I was introvert, reserved and shy when I was a kid. Over the years, I became more outgoing and enjoyed being around people. But, I still had hard time expressing my feelings, I was trying to cover for them by being upbeat and not affected. What I want to say is that because your W seems uninterested and cold doesn’t mean that she doesn’t feel anything. She is probably sticking to status quo right now until she hits the bottom. Just my 2 cents.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state