Thanks HWA I realise that now and I will get help next week through various help I'll keep you all posted as to what they say and how I go about it
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!