TTD180, you know my view, but I have to put it up here. I agree with all the others, this is your H's journey. He needs to pay his bills and get himself debt free. He cannot manipulate you or your Mum to help him out. Your journey is for you and your son, your H may rejoin later. Giving him money is not going to make that journey easier for you.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
