I am thinking about asking my w if she is in town today. Possibly ask her to have drinks or dinner. I did this one time before and we ended up having dinner a few days later. Usually she initiates if she wants to see me, but it has been almost 4 weeks now since we have seen each other.
She ignored my last text that didn't really require a response. It has been almost 2 weeks of no contact except the text that I sent.
Almost all of my interactions with w are positive, they are just rare. My other option is to just wait it out.
I continue to do things for me and just live my life. I just don't know what to do in my situation with w.
Me-45 W-44 T-7 years M-3 years (4th anniversary July 13, but we're separated) Kids from previous relationships (s14 d16 mine, s23, s24 hers)