HUH? you are going to give him money? HUH? TTD, are you the same TTD that kicks me in the rear when I need it? Okay, MH and NQ are both correct but you cannot and should not give him money. When I tried giving my W a couple of nice things in the beginning I was appalled at her reaction....
Will giving your H money bring him back to you? Will it STOP his attempted manipulation of you and your Mum? I have read many times where you mention how he brought this upon himself. So you thinking about bailing him out even a little makes no sense 2 me....What he is doing is so WRONG in many ways and I know you are better than that!